In April 2015, I experienced some tenderness in my breast while lying in bed on my side. I did feel something, but had just had a normal mammogram in January. I assumed maybe I had gotten a knock in some house or farm work, but after a week it was still there. I got in quickly to see my OBGYN. That mammogram showed a growth and the subsequent biopsy revealed it to be malignant. Thus began my “cancer cruise”, going port to port with finding a surgeon, an oncologist, radiation specialist, repeated biopsy, a MRI mammogram, and planning with a plastic surgeon how to reconstruct post-surgery.
My plan post-surgery went from originally two weeks of radiation to six chemotherapy treatments plus four weeks of radiation. Even with a positive attitude and effort made to keep active, the treatment really did me ‘in’. I avoided going up and down stairs more than once or twice a day at home, found it took more effort just to get out of a chair and the gardening chores became truly exhausting work. Even though I was ‘old’ (63), I felt OLD OLD.
Getting to know the other participants was an unexpected benefit of the program. The isolation during the chemo treatments was now countered by new acquaintances, ones who could relate to the ‘cancer cruise’ and share coping tips. The classes were helpful. I learned about post-treatment issues and was able to push my oncologist into a consult with a lymphedema OT practitioner. And yes, I did have lymphedema and was able to get the compression sleeve and vest to wear when it is needed.
Although I’m not a public person, I have been grateful to speak with the employee groups at the Y to encourage donations to the Capital Campaign. I tell anyone and all about this program. Every one of us knows of someone with a cancer diagnosis that might benefit from the program. I have personally made a donation and have volunteered to arrange an event to raise some local funding to ensure this program remains in my area.